Can Another Person Make You Happy?

Julia found herself once again sitting at home watching television instead of going out on a date. It wasn’t just watching an old movie; sadness and disappointment made for a melancholy evening. Julia had just broken up with Cayden after three years. Why? Julia just did not feel happy anymore after three years with the perfect guy, at least all her friends thought he was perfect.
 
Question, is it possible for another person to make you happy? Answer. No, no one can make you happy. Happiness comes from within, So, why is it, so many people look for happiness from other people?
 
We have been taught from childhood to adulthood that being in a relationship with a significant other will make us happy. Prince Charming, Snow White and Cinderella are just a few examples from childhood. Casablanca, The Notebook, and Gone With The Wind are a few of the all-time best romance movies.
 
To be clear, a significant other can bring you moments of happiness, but no one can make you happy in life. Our attitude and perspective in life means the world in how we look at our significant other and any situation we find ourselves.
 
If we largely have a positive outlook from within and find the good in most situations, we will have less of a need for others to make us happy. Happiness comes from within!
 
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