No direction, no purpose and wondering from one thing to another like a nomad in the desert. arid, dry and thirsty, wanting something so badly but not knowing what it is you need. Hunger starts to set in, but what should you eat? You want to settle the hunger pains, but you want something that will satisfy your longing.
 
What is your purpose in life? If only you knew, because purpose brings direction and direction brings destination, and destination brings with it your goals to obtain.
 
You are more than just a biological, electrical chemical machine, for if that were all you are, life would have no real lasting purpose.
 
Let’s first ask the question, what is most important to you? Something you must have and could not live without. Let’s move beyond the tangible things in life, we came into this life with nothing, and we will not take anything with us when we pass away from this life.
 
This leaves the intangible, those things in life that are not physical. So, what are we left with?
 
There will come a day when family, friends, classmates, co-workers, acquaintances and all the people who crossed your path in life will have something to say about you. At the end of your days in life, what is it you want people to say about you? What do you want your epitaph to read?
 
“Manny was a great husband and father, he always made time for his family. He always supported his wife’s dreams and goals. He was at all his children’s plays, recitals, and games.”
 
“Karen was the kindest and the most giving person you would ever want to meet. She gave tirelessly to the local shelter and volunteered to always help those in need.”
 
Whatever is most important to you in life, that is what your purpose is in life.
 
“Look for that higher purpose.”
 
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Michael and Kate had a real connection, they felt something special between them, a bond, a magnetism, a push, a pull that brought them together. It was an amazing experience to feel this invisible connection, two individuals, two separate hearts, two separate souls linked.
 
Do all couples experience this connection? It is every couple’s desire to connect with each other and connect in an incredible way. So why is it that every couple does not connect in the way they would love to experience?
 
Connection requires taking the time to pay attention to the other person. Often, we are so focused on ourselves, our wants, desires and needs - we fail to pay attention to the smallest details of the other person we are involved with in the relationship. Sometimes the most basics elements about the other person we miss.
 
Do we really listen to each other? Do we hear not just what is said, but how it is said? Do we really pay attention to body language? Is there a smile, frown, a look of uncertainty. Do you ever move the other person or feel moved? It can be an ideal experience to be moved emotionally with a card, poem or even a compliment.
 
Early in relationships, we try and pay attention to everything about the person we are in the relationship with, hyper-attentive. For some reason we do not continue to be hyper-attentive with our significant other, our attention may largely turn back toward ourselves without being aware of it. We should continue being hyper-attentive not on ourselves, but toward our significant other. This will help to create that connection you want,
 
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