Michael and Kate had a real connection, they felt something special between them, a bond, a magnetism, a push, a pull that brought them together. It was an amazing experience to feel this invisible connection, two individuals, two separate hearts, two separate souls linked.
Do all couples experience this connection? It is every couple’s desire to connect with each other and connect in an incredible way. So why is it that every couple does not connect in the way they would love to experience?
Connection requires taking the time to pay attention to the other person. Often, we are so focused on ourselves, our wants, desires and needs - we fail to pay attention to the smallest details of the other person we are involved with in the relationship. Sometimes the most basics elements about the other person we miss.
Do we really listen to each other? Do we hear not just what is said, but how it is said? Do we really pay attention to body language? Is there a smile, frown, a look of uncertainty. Do you ever move the other person or feel moved? It can be an ideal experience to be moved emotionally with a card, poem or even a compliment.
Early in relationships, we try and pay attention to everything about the person we are in the relationship with, hyper-attentive. For some reason we do not continue to be hyper-attentive with our significant other, our attention may largely turn back toward ourselves without being aware of it. We should continue being hyper-attentive not on ourselves, but toward our significant other. This will help to create that connection you want,
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Do all couples experience this connection? It is every couple’s desire to connect with each other and connect in an incredible way. So why is it that every couple does not connect in the way they would love to experience?
Connection requires taking the time to pay attention to the other person. Often, we are so focused on ourselves, our wants, desires and needs - we fail to pay attention to the smallest details of the other person we are involved with in the relationship. Sometimes the most basics elements about the other person we miss.
Do we really listen to each other? Do we hear not just what is said, but how it is said? Do we really pay attention to body language? Is there a smile, frown, a look of uncertainty. Do you ever move the other person or feel moved? It can be an ideal experience to be moved emotionally with a card, poem or even a compliment.
Early in relationships, we try and pay attention to everything about the person we are in the relationship with, hyper-attentive. For some reason we do not continue to be hyper-attentive with our significant other, our attention may largely turn back toward ourselves without being aware of it. We should continue being hyper-attentive not on ourselves, but toward our significant other. This will help to create that connection you want,
Contact Us For Consulting!
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