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Is Being A Gentleman Still Important?

3/10/2023

 
Cayden opened the car door for his date, then when they arrived at the restaurant he quickly ran around to her side of the car and opened his date's car door, as they entered the restaurant Cayden held the door opened, so she could walk in first, as they got to the table to sit down he pulled her chair out for her. Is chivalry dead? Is being a gentleman still something a woman looks for in a man?

“Be the type of man you’d want your daughter to be with.” Anonymous

Emotionally Sensitive
The act of being thoughtful enough to open her car door communicates kindness and sensitivity. A man that will take the extra effort to open a car door for a woman says he is sensitive. If a man is sensitive, he will show it in his actions.

Supportive/Taking Care Of
Instinctually, a man wants to take care of those who mean something to him. Opening the car door, opening the door entering into the restaurant and pulling out her chair for her to sit down, he is taking care of the person he values and respects. This is also a way to communicate he has your back, he is supportive of your well-being. A man who takes the extra effort to look out for a woman's well-being will look out for her overall well-being in life and relationship.

Emotionally Mature/Protection
Walking together down the street, a man may walk on the side closets to the street as a way to protect a woman from potential harm from traffic and cars driving through splashing puddles. Another innate natural instinct of men is the desire to protect. An emotionally mature man will put himself in harms way if it means protecting the one he loves and respects. It takes an emotionally mature person to put the one he loves and values before himself. To say, "It's not all about me", takes an emotionally mature person.

A man will often communicate his love, respect, support and maturity in ways that are action oriented. Being a gentleman, showing chivalry and taking his coat to cover a puddle is his way of showing a woman just how much she means to him.

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