
I am dating this person and I wonder if they want to take it to the next level and get serious?
Answer:
First of all if you want to know something you should ask. Quite often we overlook the obvious.
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Second do what I call match and proceed. Make sure you match the attention/behavior that you receive and desire. For example, if you are dating someone and you are the one who calls 3 time a day and they call once, then you should cut down to once a day. If you are the one who initiates spending time together be it dinner, lunch, movies, plays, or festivals etc. Stop doing all
(do less) the initiating and see if they are willing to initiate.
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Now, it is also extremely important to do what I call "proceeding." If you are calling one time a day, and they are calling one time a day, and you think you should talk more, than call twice a day for a few days or a week or two to see if your significant other will match. If not go back to once a day. In essence give what it is they are giving, test the waters and give more and see if they will match
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If you are talking one day about getting more serious, and they do not match by agreeing or they are just not into the discussion, and this happens several times, this is a telling sign they are not ready to take the relationship to the next level at this time.
I am assuming you have already discussed your wants, needs, desires and you know what both of you want in a relationship, because if you are not getting what it is you need after discussing those things, and they are not matching your behavior and needs, it may very well be they are not ready to take it to the next level. At this time, you will have to make a decision as to how long you are willing to wait.
We have a program that will help you and your significant other (or future significant other) clearly define and know what you want, need and what is most important to you in a relationship. How much is true happiness in a relationship worth?
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Answer:
First of all if you want to know something you should ask. Quite often we overlook the obvious.
Guide On "He Say...She Say" The Art Of Great Communication
Second do what I call match and proceed. Make sure you match the attention/behavior that you receive and desire. For example, if you are dating someone and you are the one who calls 3 time a day and they call once, then you should cut down to once a day. If you are the one who initiates spending time together be it dinner, lunch, movies, plays, or festivals etc. Stop doing all
(do less) the initiating and see if they are willing to initiate.
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Now, it is also extremely important to do what I call "proceeding." If you are calling one time a day, and they are calling one time a day, and you think you should talk more, than call twice a day for a few days or a week or two to see if your significant other will match. If not go back to once a day. In essence give what it is they are giving, test the waters and give more and see if they will match
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If you are talking one day about getting more serious, and they do not match by agreeing or they are just not into the discussion, and this happens several times, this is a telling sign they are not ready to take the relationship to the next level at this time.
I am assuming you have already discussed your wants, needs, desires and you know what both of you want in a relationship, because if you are not getting what it is you need after discussing those things, and they are not matching your behavior and needs, it may very well be they are not ready to take it to the next level. At this time, you will have to make a decision as to how long you are willing to wait.
We have a program that will help you and your significant other (or future significant other) clearly define and know what you want, need and what is most important to you in a relationship. How much is true happiness in a relationship worth?
Click here for Instant Help…Instant Results!
Finally Real Answers For Real Problems!