
I feel like no matter what I say it is like talking to a brick wall, it didn’t use to be this way. Should I give up?
Answer:
Find something that he or she enjoys, has a passion for or is partial too. This will get his/her attention, and you are likely to keep it.
Example: “You know honey, it really is amazing in a good way how much you and King (the pet dog) get along. He’s like your best friend. I guess the saying "A dog is man’s best friend) is true." But sometimes when you call him to come and he doesn’t come, I know how upset that makes you dear...This is how I feel when I try talking to you, and you don’t respond. It's as if I am talking to myself. I realize I may not always choose the best time to talk about certain things, or you might not be interested in what I’m saying, but I feel as you do when King doesn’t respond to your voice.”
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What are you doing here?
First you get attention by talking about something he has an interest in and a connection with, which may have nothing at all to do with what you want to talk about. What does a pet dog have to do with how you feel when you are talking to someone, and they do not respond?
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Second, tell a story or give a short example (it could be their job, their new car, the children, school, a hobby etc.) You are now communicating in their language, and they at least have an understanding of how you feel that now is relatable for them.
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